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Ryuuka of the 7th Flame
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| Slivius wrote: | | feel, don't think! |
Easier said than done but solid advice IMO.
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JCMS
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| Slivius wrote: | How I see it, though I tend to overthink things (feel, don't think!):
Possibilities in no particular order:
- She's just very insecure about all this
- She's toying with you
- She's also interested in another guy and didn't want to give him the idea that she's into you
- She has a split personality
The last one isn't meant in a serious way but you might just be a very unlucky person. |
Finally got to speak with her yesterday and meh.
Things started to get better since last time. The play-thing continued and everyone was aware of it. Some funny thing happened with a girl last week (long story but I'm being teased about the other girl). She was definitely jealous and all. It was very clear.
Had a talk with her. Apparently she's seeing someone right now and she's never been interested into me and she denies everything. She said she would have never invited me to sleep with her and be so affectuous if she had thought I would have liked being more than friends.
There's nothing to understand.
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Ryke
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 4:52 am Post subject: |
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...So uh, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now and everything is going great. Not everything has been absolutely perfect all of the time, but we've never really had any remotely serious arguments. It's like, it was pretty awkward at first because it's a first relationship for both of us and we were both twenty-ish when we started going out, but then we got through the awkward phase and for the last 14 months things have been amazing and it is pretty much the one thing in my life that has been unambiguously going well
i'm sorry I just ruined this topic
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Dice
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 5:59 am Post subject: |
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| JCMS wrote: | | Slivius wrote: | How I see it, though I tend to overthink things (feel, don't think!):
Possibilities in no particular order:
- She's just very insecure about all this
- She's toying with you
- She's also interested in another guy and didn't want to give him the idea that she's into you
- She has a split personality
The last one isn't meant in a serious way but you might just be a very unlucky person. |
Finally got to speak with her yesterday and meh.
Things started to get better since last time. The play-thing continued and everyone was aware of it. Some funny thing happened with a girl last week (long story but I'm being teased about the other girl). She was definitely jealous and all. It was very clear.
Had a talk with her. Apparently she's seeing someone right now and she's never been interested into me and she denies everything. She said she would have never invited me to sleep with her and be so affectuous if she had thought I would have liked being more than friends.
There's nothing to understand. |
Slap her left boob, smack her butt, and walk away while flashing the "peace" sign and say "PAYCE BATCH, I'M AOUT". Rise again another day.
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CovertSushi
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 6:11 am Post subject: |
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| Ryke wrote: | ...So uh, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now and everything is going great. Not everything has been absolutely perfect all of the time, but we've never really had any remotely serious arguments. It's like, it was pretty awkward at first because it's a first relationship for both of us and we were both twenty-ish when we started going out, but then we got through the awkward phase and for the last 14 months things have been amazing and it is pretty much the one thing in my life that has been unambiguously going well
i'm sorry I just ruined this topic |
about the same except half that amount of time, sry every1
i gut 9 prollums but a board aren't there
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Flea
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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Ryke and CovertSushi, get out of this thread with your successful love lives!!
(I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 4 months and things are going really great) |
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PrettyKitty
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I will continue the combo of a 1 year 1 month lovely relationship. We also have never had a legit fight!
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2013 2:26 am Post subject: |
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I'm married and things are great! (except always being wrong)
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Jazzin'
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I guess it's that time of year when all the members in relationships poke their heads out to mention that things are still going good
(4 years, going on 5 in March)
we argue sometimes but it's always been about video games and we've always managed to resolve it somehow
I could also mention some lame ass thing about how he's the one consistent part of my life that doesn't act like a huge prick and is always dependable for me and other lovey **** but nobody wants to hear that
god we are such losers
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Jimbob the Shameful
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| for a change of pace, then: three and a bit years and things are consistently horrible |
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2013 11:30 am Post subject: |
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...Well I'm in a fantastic relationship too!
*back into the night*
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Since you're talking about succesful relationships (like mine!) what do you guys think about not fighting? I've been with my girlfriend for seven months, and we've never had any real fight... or any fight at all. Some people tell me "That's pretty cool! Keep it like that. You're very lucky", but others are like "Whaaaaat? No fights? You aren't a real couple. Couple's fight to show their love. You'll be a real couple when you have a fight", but I find that last opinion pretty disturbing.
I have a friend who spent like 4 months fighting with his girlfriend, and I always asked how could he stand all the crap she did, and he told me "Well, I really love her. If you love her you'll find a way around". He broke up with her like a week ago, saying that he couldn't handle it anymore and that it wasn't "true" love at all.
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CovertSushi
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I've never had an actual fight with my girlfriend. I only had fights with one girlfriend who has empirically shown herself to be the worst girlfriend I've had. Normal people talk, crazy people have screaming matches and can't disagree without things blowing up into a cascading waterfall of "OH THIS WAS NEVER ABOUT THE DINETTE SETS AND YOU KNOW IT JERRY. YOU NEVER LEAVE THE SEAT DOWN AND YOU HATE MY MOTHER!"
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Dice
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I love a makeup makeout after a fight though. Nothing proves you care more than the fact you're willing to yell (i.e. not scream and throw vases) at each other. Oh the irony; I suppose that same logic is why a customer can talk sh** to me and I won't give a damn.
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CovertSushi
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2013 6:44 pm Post subject: |
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| Dice wrote: | | Nothing proves you care more than the fact you're willing to yell (i.e. not scream and throw vases) at each other. |
Please explain. I really don't understand.
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